http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/forums/1 en-us Copyright 2006, Yuku feeds@yuku.com (FeedMaster) webmaster@yuku.com (WebMaster) Wed, 06 Jan 2010 05:39:53 GMT Yuku Feeds 1.0 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss 60 http://static.yuku.com//feed/bypass/images/button-yuku.png http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/forums/1 Yuku - free hosted forums and profiles 88 31 {pics-1.1 "http://www.icra.org/ratingsv02.html" l gen true for "http://yuku.com" r (nz 1 vz 1 lz 1 oz 1 cz 1 ) "http://www.rsac.org/ratingsv01.html" l gen true for "http://yuku.com" r (n 0 s 0 v 0 l 0 )) Search Domain q http://yuku.com/search/direct/ http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/5052/t/Put-yourself-first.html feeds@yuku.com (loveurwife) http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/5052 Wed, 06 Jan 2010 00:35:38 GMT http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/5051/t/Helping-my-DW-with-coping-skills.html feeds@yuku.com (iluminati) http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/5051 Tue, 05 Jan 2010 16:57:49 GMT http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/5050/t/Losing-hope-fast-I-m-a-mess.html I am brand new to the depression fallout board. Boy, am I glad I found you all though. I'm a mess. Literally. I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend off and on for two and half years. He suffers from chronic depression and OCD. I knew this going into the relatonship; we started out as a long distance (across the big lake between Wisconsin and Michigan) relatonship. For months we saw each other for... ]]> feeds@yuku.com (tessasmiles) http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/5050 Tue, 05 Jan 2010 12:47:49 GMT http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/5049/t/how-to-let-go-of-her-completely.html feeds@yuku.com (lookingforhope) http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/5049 Tue, 05 Jan 2010 04:15:41 GMT http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/5048/t/BPH--admitted--psych-unit-today-1st-time---hosp--BP.html Just wanted to let everyone know that after listening to my BPH's suicidal statements for the last 48 hours, I told my therapist who recommended I tell his pdoc and talkdoc, which I did. the Pdoc had the police do a wellness check and told him he could go willingly or they would take him. He agreed to go. He's been admitted and is VERY angry with me. More on the issue can be found in my other post titled: http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/5048 Tue, 05 Jan 2010 00:53:01 GMT http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/5047/t/I-took-a-step-in-the-right-direction-today-.html feeds@yuku.com (devastated) http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/5047 Mon, 04 Jan 2010 20:51:28 GMT http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/5046/t/How-do-I-best-handle-this-.html feeds@yuku.com (devastated) http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/5046 Mon, 04 Jan 2010 17:42:42 GMT http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/5045/t/Should-I-ask-her-mother-to-call-.html Anything we say is turned against us. It's a no win. Perhaps a call from her... ]]> feeds@yuku.com (Heter) http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/5045 Mon, 04 Jan 2010 13:52:40 GMT http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/5044/t/Not-sure-what-to-do-re-upcoming-anniversary-advice-welcome.html It will be 2 months on Jan. 6th since my SO left, after almost 14 years together. He has been diagnosed with Bipolar Disorder (his mom has it too) and later, also with Borderline Personality Disorder, isn't medicated and isn't in therapy. He self medicates his anxiety with pot. He doesn't hit all of the markers re the Bipolar and the Borderline but some of both. This is not the first time he's left me, but it is the first time he's left where he appears to be... ]]> feeds@yuku.com (fleurette) http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/5044 Mon, 04 Jan 2010 09:29:29 GMT http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/5043/t/looking-for-guidance-.html Hi

I've been reading all your posts and feel comfort knowing that others are out there, but sad that so many people are going through the same thing.

My partner has had depression for over 6 years now, since we moved, and he doesn't understand how his illness affects our relationship, just thinking we now have a bad relationship. It's so frustrating because for the 7 years before we moved, we had a great relationship. He seems to have forgotten all of this... ]]> feeds@yuku.com (all rollercoastered out) http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/5043 Mon, 04 Jan 2010 07:17:53 GMT http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/5042/t/Pain-of-death-or-Pain-of-splitting-which-can-one-live-with-.html feeds@yuku.com (FlyGirlStitcher) http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/5042 Sun, 03 Jan 2010 20:59:02 GMT http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/5041/t/It-s-like-living-with-a-dead-person.html
Many stories here are of partners who act out in anger, walk out of the relationship, and blame the SO for their depression. My situation is a bit different. My SO is kind to me, takes full responsibility for his depression, and is grateful for my support. However, I'm miserable. I feel like I'm living with a dead man. He was never... ]]> feeds@yuku.com (mydso) http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/5041 Sun, 03 Jan 2010 01:08:02 GMT http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/5038/t/Like-seeing-yourself-in-a-snow-globe.html feeds@yuku.com (k8ydeer) http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/5038 Sat, 02 Jan 2010 14:34:06 GMT http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/5037/t/Unsure-if-I-did-the-right-thing-.html feeds@yuku.com (regtuck) http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/5037 Fri, 01 Jan 2010 11:14:29 GMT http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/5036/t/undercurrents.html feeds@yuku.com (laski) http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/5036 Fri, 01 Jan 2010 09:49:06 GMT http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/5035/t/the-hospital-again.html feeds@yuku.com (ram1969) http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/5035 Thu, 31 Dec 2009 12:30:29 GMT http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/5034/t/advice-.html feeds@yuku.com (JZ) http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/5034 Wed, 30 Dec 2009 20:42:37 GMT http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/5033/t/Letter-to-doctor-good-idea-.html He thinks he might have been depressed for quite some time (which I suspected), but it seems to have gotten worse this year with continued unhappiness in his job, the kids growing up and becoming more independent of us (thirteen year old boys), and the general sense of a mid-life crisis. This summer he had the "big talk" with me, which just obliterated me, until... ]]> feeds@yuku.com (motw) http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/5033 Wed, 30 Dec 2009 16:21:57 GMT http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/5032/t/Something-I-have-been-thinking-about.html feeds@yuku.com (fuffy0420) http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/5032 Wed, 30 Dec 2009 16:18:01 GMT http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/5031/t/Is-it-really-depression-.html
I sometimes start to doubt that my husband is really suffering from depression. He has never been diagnosed and I just think he has it, because after he left so abruptly my counsellor was the one who suggested the possibilty and when I started reading about it I felt that this is what our problem was, but I often doubt it though and then I think: What if he is just a selfish bastard who didn;t want to have a family anymore and just wanted to live his own life? I go from... ]]> feeds@yuku.com (devastated) http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/5031 Wed, 30 Dec 2009 11:07:27 GMT