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What do people think? ]]> feeds@yuku.com (jngj) http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/2869 Thu, 06 Mar 2008 09:54:56 GMT http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/2768/t/---chalk---depression----really--PERSON-.html So, DH came by this moring to drop off our son (its his weekend), because my son had basketball while daughter had swimming lessons - so I was taking son to... ]]> feeds@yuku.com (Hope2007) http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/2768 Sat, 16 Feb 2008 17:31:40 GMT http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/2642/t/What-is-on-your-personal-depression-checklist-.html
For me it is (in what I reacognize in his behavior)

weight gain
"I don't know" is standard reply
no sex
calling me names
blaming everything on me (and I mean everything.. even little things)
feeling paranoid
accuses me of "$$$*!*@ with his mind"
... ]]> feeds@yuku.com (k8ydeer) http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/2642 Thu, 31 Jan 2008 17:35:41 GMT http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/2465/t/How-do-I-get-through-another-day-with-no-contact-.html December 15th he says "I need to be alone. I need to work on me. I need to figure THIS (depression) out."
Christmas Day, we spoke. Nothing serious.
New Years Day, we spoke. This time, I couldn't take it, and I brought up the topic of US. He said "I don't want to be in a relationship right now. I have to focus on me." When I asked him what changed... ]]> feeds@yuku.com (HesDepressedImSad) http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/2465 Wed, 09 Jan 2008 12:40:24 GMT http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/2412/t/Is-it-really-the-depression-talking-.html feeds@yuku.com (mageva) http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/2412 Thu, 03 Jan 2008 09:58:09 GMT http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/515/t/Depression-and-Mid-Life-Crisis.html ]]> feeds@yuku.com (Hope2007) http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/515 Mon, 26 Nov 2007 18:16:11 GMT http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/525/t/Holidays-trigger-depression-.html
what is it about holidays?

at least he is attending this year......


I saw it coming 2 1/2 weeks ago though........... ]]> feeds@yuku.com (tryinthis2) http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/525 Fri, 23 Nov 2007 20:29:34 GMT http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/712/t/A-depressive-s-reality-does-it-change-when-better-.html
Does what they say when depressed stay as reality when the depression finally lifts?

For example, my husband has been saying things that clearly show classic depression signs: he has no happy memories of our past vacations; he thinks we've socially isolated ourselves; he feels like we (as a couple) never had any common interests. All of which I know are untrue ... I have 10 photo albums of all our vacations and... ]]> feeds@yuku.com (jngj) http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/712 Fri, 26 Oct 2007 09:28:49 GMT http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/681/t/Does-no-contact-mean-no-chance-.html feeds@yuku.com (only1hope) http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/681 Mon, 15 Oct 2007 18:33:27 GMT http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/873/t/Would-you-continue-to-do-family-activities-w-separated-DSO-.html feeds@yuku.com (Hope2007) http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/873 Mon, 01 Oct 2007 20:21:08 GMT http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/876/t/Giving-up.html
I feel I have been almost the perfect... ]]> feeds@yuku.com (CapsChick) http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/876 Sun, 23 Sep 2007 08:56:12 GMT http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/880/t/The-Fairytale-Syndrome.html
Someone in on of the threads brought up the similarity in the way that people on the board describe their relationships before the D or BP hit. The describe the relationship as

being almost perfect (because nothing is perfect)
having a feeling that two halves of a... ]]> feeds@yuku.com (AnnLee) http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/880 Tue, 18 Sep 2007 12:50:39 GMT http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/812/t/Dear-Depression.html
I hate you. You are undiscriminating and unfair in choosing your targets. You have chosen the most beautiful soul I know and have robbed him of joy, happiness, and love. Why? Are you jealous of this young, handsome, charming, funny, intelligent, caring, sweet, selfless person? Are you so determined to undermine his life that you keep sinking your hooks in deeper, determined to make him miserable and lonely?

You have taken hold of this fine man and have... ]]> feeds@yuku.com (CapsChick) http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/812 Sun, 09 Sep 2007 17:20:15 GMT http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/882/t/What-was-the-catalyst-into-the-D-.html But i want to ask- what was the significant thing that you think pushed your SO or yourself into full blown D?

In my opinon ( and i may be wrong- as my H has hidden things well for years) the catalyst of the first really bad phase of my hubbys D was my second pregancy. And the next bad one was when his father was diagnosed with cancer. I know he was depressed long before these things but they just... ]]> feeds@yuku.com (nicola) http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/882 Sun, 02 Sep 2007 14:25:35 GMT http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/885/t/Is-My-DSO-A-Bad-Person-Or-Is-It-The-Illness-.html
How do I know if my DSO is a lying/ cheating/ thieving/ abusive jerk or if it is just the illness?

I have seen a lot of people saying that their DSOs were never liars, cheats, thieves or abusers before they got sick.

In my opinion... ]]> feeds@yuku.com (AnnLee) http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/885 Fri, 17 Aug 2007 09:15:33 GMT http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/886/t/Depression-makes-me-angry.html
Sick of being patient, reading books, finding excuses for **** behaviour, listening to families and friends defend someone who has behaved like a pig.

Ok , I give up, they're all right and I'm wrong. They're all right, I'm wrong, even though they have spent a hundredth of the time with him this year that I have.

Ok he's not depressed. He's fine - it's perfectly healthy to cry ALL year, and say you feel terrified, and suicidal, and to be in... ]]> feeds@yuku.com (LEELEC) http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/886 Sat, 11 Aug 2007 05:44:10 GMT http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/883/t/winning-back-my-partner-after-depression-is-there-hope-.html
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I am a depression sufferer. I feel like i am coming out of it now, but clearly i have a journey to go through yet.

My long term depression, acknowledged for its severity only a few months ago has taken its toll on my relationship with my partner. I was horrible to my partner during this time.

This is my story.... is there hope to... ]]> feeds@yuku.com (c4steph) http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/883 Sun, 05 Aug 2007 00:39:53 GMT http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/891/t/In-laws.html Things with my DBF have gotten better to the point that we're engaged again,... ]]> feeds@yuku.com (Jules7213) http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/891 Thu, 26 Jul 2007 09:46:06 GMT http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/889/t/question-for-the-men-about-aggression.html
Incident One:
Last fall, I had mono. With mono, one is extremely weak and tired and there is a risk that the spleen can become enlarged. If it does and is hit or ruptures, it can be life-threatening as the person can bleed to death. When I had mono, there were some books lying on our bed. DH got to bed before I did and moved... ]]> feeds@yuku.com (SeekingPositiveOutcomes) http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/889 Wed, 25 Jul 2007 06:08:22 GMT http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/879/t/Would-u-get-involved-with-somebody-who-is-depressed-.html feeds@yuku.com (Discosue) http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com/topic/879 Mon, 23 Jul 2007 21:21:40 GMT