You have certainly come to the right web site, but I think what you need to do is post this on the regular message board. I'm sure you'll get lots of answers, and you'll certainly discover you are not alone.

Download chapter one from the home page, read the archives, and read as many of the posts on the message boards as you can. They'll help you get a handle on what's happening in your life - because the very same thing is happening in theirs.

Anne