Cyn,

The meds will help. If not Lexapro there are others types to try. The meds are only suppose to curb the depression. Without the depression the pain and the issues will still be there. Without the depression you will be able to function at a higher level. You will be able to deal/cope with this stuff more effectively.

Are you seeing a therapist? One that can help you dig through this?

Sorry you are going thru this.
(((Hugs)))
daml