Seems like the meds are helping to take the "EDGE" off, but not to sure about anything else yet. I still get down, its more of an emotionally sense of being sad like i've lost something. I haven't broken down and cried, but it still hurts. The anxiety is a little better, but dont agree with just 20mg of Lex. There are times i dont feel its doing anything, but if i stopped taking at lest the lex, id prob notice something. I dont seem to obsess about my marriage so much right now, or try to contact him, but i still hurt and wish.