Hmm the last few posts have been thought provoking....a year ago my dw told me she no had feelings for me and is not in love with me but she loves me.....a year down the line that sentiment has been repeated....how does that make me feel.....well I fell empty. I accept that couples go through dips but I feelas if the cornerstone of our relationship has been rocked.

For me I unable to accept this and I fear that if we stay together I will be driven insane with the pursuit of what I am unable to have. We went through the same thing 15 years ago (possibly the first depressive episode).....I suspect my dw conceeded and tried to fit in with what was perceived as acceptable. I love her she was the centre of my world.....and maybe that was my failing in our relationship....