I read the Too Good to Leave ~ Too Bad to Stay book over the weekend.

I do have to admit some of my answers made my skin crawl because it suggested that I may be happier if I left my relationship. But my wife and I are using it as a guide, not a definitive resolution.

It helped me to see the many different aspects of a relationship. I did not know there were so many! It takes a very rational look at one's relationship. It helped me divert my focus away from the one issue that I have been stuck on, the "not in-love" issue. It gave me hope.




My two cents, I think this book could aid anyone whom is considering leaving a relationship. It's intent is to give you a very clear look at that relationship and to get past the confusion. The book is based around 36 questions, each with it's own guideline on what your answer means to those questions. Each question is explored in detailed with stories to help explain the author's intent of the question. It is also a very easy read.

Example Question: "Do you feel willing to give your partner more than youre giving already, and are you willing to do this the way things are between you now, without any expectation of paid back?"

Example Question: "Is there some particular need thats so important to you that if you dont get it met, looking back youll say your life wasnt satisfying and are you starting to get discouraged about ever being able to get it met?"