Felicia,

I just wanted to say thank you for your wise words when we talked the other night.. I really thought a lot about what you said.. My Dh came on sunday for a while and as I was doing heavy lifting and cleaning outside he didn't offer to help.. I KEPT MY MOUTH SHUT>. after he left i vented and cried...It was hard... It makes so much sense to just allow him to be and if he feels that being around me is threatening or uncomfortable he won't want to come around.. I also keep reminding myself that there is NO LOGIC.. And you also gave me some hope...I had lost hope .. thanks again..Your words have helped ..
janet