I too would like to hear views on your wife. Your words are like a lifeline to me. I CRAVE to understand the mind of my DH. I guess deep down I know what is going on but your words reinforce my thoughts.. The more I understand the easier it is for me to release the anger and pain that I have as a fallout wife.. I thank you so much for your words..I wonder if my husband stills sees me as beautiful and a really good person. He used to love me so much and not he will talk to me for hours but has not really acknowledged what I am going through or the kids..This morning I asked him why he treats me as I never existed.. this is 18 yrs. he said it is too painful to go there.. I was happy with that answer.. I understand it and I am only asking to figure out what is going on.. I love to read your posts and insight is the key for me to heal and be more compasionate..THanks again.
shoos..

I have to say though that I am so sorry that any of us are on this board.. WHen did life get so hard????