No question is dumb or wrong...I have learned more about myself in the last few years from questions from people on the board. Questions which came from all different walks of life, situations, etc. that I may not have come up with on my own. Sometimes very hard questions, sometimes amusing ones, sometimes one which evoke irritation. I have learned more, here, than in thousands of hours of therapy...because in therapy you have two perspectives...here, you have hundreds.

Everyone is going through a difficult time through all of this, and it is understandable when defensiveness, words are misplken or misunderstood. So, don't worry, be happy. :rollin

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So, the best source of information is from others that have no personal interest in my life and have the knowledge of how it feels.


That is the truest statement I have heard in a long while...it would be hard, emotionally, to explain to your husband/wife how something effects you...when it effects them as well.
I also think, and have seen many times over, that what I may say may make sense to someone, even if their spouse has said the same thing...because I am not them...
Sometimes, it takes someone outside a situation to show us what we need to see.