thank you for sharing... I just a few months ago found out about the loss of good memories. My ex and I were having a heated debate about my supposed manipulation of our relationship (I know pointless to argue) and when he mentioned that he met my parents 4 mos after the actual first meeting (where he invited them to his home to celebrate our commitment etc and not moving abroad and what a happy moment it was for us) I stopped him and asked about that day and he looked at me with such wonder and exclaimed like it was eons ago...' and I was in love with you' what?! duh! was my first thought... the second was horror at what else may be lost or distorted. I had no idea dp did this to the brain. So thank you for posting that... I hope with all the posting here, you see in writing how far you are coming... take care!!! KC