DAML

You may have stated previously, but how long have you been in therapy and on meds?

You have helped me personally as a fallout who was blindsided by my fiance's recent mde when I thought the worst was all behind us.

With him having gone through this and worse before, (prior to me) I thought that he would be better able to deal with future bouts with this beast.

He has expressed much of what you have written when he was not depressed. I had thought I was losing him to this battle until last night.

I've shared with him your very generous thoughts and it has helped him to see that it is not *just him*.

When he thought he was *better* he stopped his therapy, and I had to argue to keep him on meds (which was his pdoc's advice) Now, he sees that the thereapy is much needed and instead of just showing up and paying the bill (as he previously viewed it) he is engaging in the therapy and working at it.

Thank you again.