If someone had told me that I would be going thru this, I would have laughed and told them they were out of their minds...
You just don't ever know what cards life has to deal you.

All of the info that everyone provided is great. I am starting to think that my DH is having a MAJOR control issue - he wants the control. Here is a sample of what he wrote me today, this after a string of emails that we were sending back and forth:
Quote:
You do not understand that "I decide what I want". We disagree on things, how can we work out differences. We disagree. On curtains, colors, beds.
You just don't get it. I do want the ball and string, it's true. If I can't have the ball and string then I'll take a woman part time. At least that way I'll have nothing to argue about. My stuff the way I want it.


Again, this was the last email that he sent me, we were having an exchange of heated emails and one of the things I wrote was that he needs to find a bimbo that will be happy playing with a ball on a string and says "Yes Sir".

Just horrible. But, we are getting closer to the Divorce date. I still go thru this with a broken heart, but stronger than I was a couple of months ago.