With every new experience...good, bad, or indifferent I learn something I will use at another time.

There have been times, I too, wished I had not...fill in the blanks here...and things had been different. But, I cannot change the past...not to whom I was born to, when I was born, how I was raised, nor how I made what decisions I have made. I can look at them, see them, learn from them(or not or learn different things each time I do look at them) and make more choices and decisions from then on...

Today is but one day...
There have been thousands before this one...
and, the gods willing, more after this one...

Sometimes I see people who are 'stuck' and have not been able to move beyond a specific day....they live each day as if it were the one before...dates may change...but, their reactions vary by very little. That, too, is a choice and is ok...if that is what they want. To live a 'Ground Hog Day' (the movie) over and over with the characters being different, but, the result the same.