Yes, my boundaries are mine and not his and definately not meaningless. Its hard however watch him react to my setting limits in a way that conveys "why are you doing this to me?" and not getting the fact that hurting him isn't what I'm trying to do.

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What do you show him...pretty much the same you show yourself...except, one thing...you live inside yourself, not inside him...you have to live with your decisions, as he does his.


I have to keep focused on the fact that I'm the one who must answer to my God and myself in the end regarding the choices I make for my life and those I am responsible like my children.

Thanks for listening!