"Did I say that nice enough for you!" Or "You better take care of that, because I'm too mean."

I think its much to do with the DSOs need to reorganize words into event sequence.
And I have a sneaky feeling that our subconscious knows this hence our need to try and do in this room what they cannot do for themselves (organise words).

Abstract thinking and I apologise if I'm incorrect.

More abstract thinking I bet the majority of DSOs are very good at playing scrabble.???????????????? I certainly cannot beat mine.

Words are learnt in relation to events as we grow up.

At the moment you are probably getting this reaction from this brain area with this emotion.
WORDS STOCK PHRASES /BROCAS ONLY LEFT SIDE = VANITY

These brain areas also respond being more basic.
WORDS EXTREME EMOTIONAL /AMYGDALA LEFT FEMALES RIGHT MALES = SELF HATE
WORDS EMOTIONAL /ANTERIOR CINGULATE PREFRONTAL = SELF HATE
WORDS EMOTIONAL EVALUATING /CINGULATE CORTEX SUBGENUAL LEFT = SELF HATE
WORDS FALSE ERROR DETECTION /ANTERIOR CINGULATE PREFRONTAL = SELF HATE
WORDS AND ACTION PROCESSED /WERNICKS LEFT = SELF HATE

Words are really why our brain has developed to such an extent and as I said in a previous posting very much to do with suggestion in hypnotism.

If the vocabulary and experience of life is low the chances are much higher for the brain with antibiotics to put words back into event sequence.

DSOs have just too many words/experiences in their vocabulary to reorganise. In a previous posting I described how obsession, learning new rules and obsession work in a loop. This loop is described classically as guilt (in either self pity or self hate) revolving with jealousy and social responsibility. The way I interpret this is that the guilt is not being able to sort the words, the jealousy is that the partner can sort everyones words and the social responsibility is the need to sort the words for everyones sake.

I surmise the brain thinks the best fit for these mixed up words are the order in which they are learnt during childhood. The stock phrases above being parentally learnt bounce out of the head because it is only these that make sense when event related. Hence very few brain areas are able to correctly relate to episodic events. The question is why you, why me, why not the mother, why not the best friend. Why do the loving partners bear the brunt of the agression.

If a new set of rules are in place based upon childhood learning event order then we have no chance. Parents first, friends second and us for now out in the cold. Love is well down the list in terms of self preservation.

I think this somehow matches self hypnosis in that the words are responding with an action against the nearest and dearest that turns the loop round again. The path to full word event order may never happen if a negative parental input from the past is in the way. Such a parental input reinforces the will of the loop to reject episodic memories and turn round back into the cycle of old childhood memories where they interplay with recent short term memories.

As I've said before the little child lost blames the mum saying "you losted me mum".