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But, I am coming to realize that no matter how much I hate to admit it, I have to face the truth that my husband has behaviors that are abusive.


I'm so sorry.

If I haven't mentioned it already to you, you may also find Lundy Bancroft's book, Why Does He DO That? invaluable as well.

Please take care of yourself. I don't know of anyone who sets out to be abusive, or abused.

Did you find the Drama Triangle useful? (I think that is the www.coping.org site.) You can always google it, try using "Lynne Namka".