Hang in their, Jen. this sort of thing takes time. do you have a journal? do you have a scheduled activity for after tough T days? my T used to suggest going to a movie or for a run afterwards, to clear my head. I think it's great that you had 3 good weeks! it will take time for him to figure out what he wants long term--he has to get much better himself first. is he taking his medicine regularly now? does he go to T as well? it sounds like you are really on track--but not you're playing the waiting game, which has different challenges than being in panic mode.

good luck!