My friend was more than a friend he was also my boyfriend. I have sent many texts and letters. I'm not acknowledged at all. Its like he does not care at all. A few months ago I saw him at a funeral, he was happy to see me. He said I would see him soon, but he still needs time. He still cares I could see that in his eyes. Its just so hard for him. In public it seems that he is fine. If I were to talk to some of the people he works with they would probably think he's fine. Its when he's at home, with those he's used to that he isn't fine. Its hard to be patient. He recently sent a text to another friend saying that they should come see him. At first I was really hurt and angry. Then I realized its cause he knows I would follow up on that type of invitation. This other person will just wait to hear from him. I think maybe your boyfriend is just not ready yet. Don't give up on him if you love him that much. We just have to be patient. Easier said than done. Im struggling with that myself. DON'T GIVE UP.