fullcircle210 wrote:

My Df helped his parents move on Saturday and I believe he went out with friends Saturday night (for the first time in a few months, but still....) he spent the weekend at his parents, and with his family. If he can do those things...why can't he call me or work on our relationship? It just makes no sense to me, other than the idea that he is pushing me to see when I will break, or just waiting for me to end it.
I too struggle with this. My DH spent the entire weekend with his parents too and I felt hurt that he *seemed* to have had a very nice weekend. But I don't really know if he did or didn't. He probably just put on the "socially acceptable" mask that depressives do.

Oh I don't know ... what to do -- what to do!