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Thank you all so much. Basically, he was just pulling away and pulling away and told me that he needs to dedicate 120% of himself to work right now and since he has been focusing on me for the past 2 years so much, his business has suffered, (mind you, is is HIS DECISION to skip work!) and he cannot come here to see me except Saturday-Sunday (Prior arrangement in Thurs to Monday morning.) He didn't say he needs to focus everything he has on us and work. He said he needs to put all of his time and energy into work (yes, I understand that work is important, but how did that make me feel?)
First he cancelled wedding. Then he decided he wasn't moving here. Then he questioned if he wanted to be with me. Then he wanted a break. Now he wants to pull away further, and I know myself. He was supposed to move here (I can't move because of custody arrangements) and although I don't like the arrangement, I agreed to compromise Thurs-Monday morning. I already don't like the arrangement we have (he is perfectly capable of working from on Fridays and going into the office on Monday but he chooses not to), and now he is putting me further on the backburner. I will never see him. I will never see my friends. I will never be able to make a life here without him when he occupies all of my free time on the weekends...and I can't come last. He cannot dictate everything in this relationship, down to when we should or shouldn't talk, and I am just finished. I feel ok today, actually. Kind of relieved. Tonight will be hard because he is coming to get his things, but I will survive. Interview went well, but I am sure my sadness came through. SHe did ask for references though, so that's a good sign, and told me they'd contact me by next week. Thank you all so much for your kind words and encouragement!!!
Oh and whatthehail, I think you're right. He has texted me today more than he has in a year.
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