bluestar....no one is upset with you...just stating how they feel as a BP person and if that was presented to them.
it is ALWAYS great to have opinions and experience from people that suffer from BP and/or D as well as from you and me and others who are trying to help our SO's with this.

ok...i am not BP....and i can tell you right now...that if someone asked me to sign that kind of a contract...i would tell them to kiss my batootie!!!! i HATE and i repeat HATE to be told what to do and when to do and how to do it. so WOOHOO to you bluestar...that your XDH did sign it for you. i am actually very surprised....but all D people are different in some ways.......and then they are very very much alike. it's great their are so many members here...that share so many of the "same" story.

again....i guess we all can't stress enough...that ACTIONS speak louder than words or a contract!!!! bot wasfunonce...you have to figure out what works for you and your BPH

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