jessho...explain...."think about the dynamics of the holiday and analyze wheather T has his head on straight"...i don't
understand what that means???


Maybe I'm assuming too much, but if there is any spark of feelings, Ex would be eliminated from the Thanksgiving lineup. I'd ignore my entire family if they pulled crap like that, especially if they knew I didn't think much of the Ex, or want to be around her. Sister would get the one warning and her own opportunity to make a decision.