Lynne
We are STILL paranoid, aren't we?
Maybe something did, or didn't rekindle...somehow I seriously doubt it.
But, you are making serious assumptions...never do that...
You have enough problems with HISTORY, let alone assumptions about what other people are doing or not doing in your presence at present.

You know, it never is about him........
He could have said, I told my sister am not coming to dinner...and you would have been twisting in the wind whether or not he did...then, where DID he spend his time...
Sigh, there are NO real answers, save, to work on your own trust issues...meaning trusting in yourself, trusting in people to be who they are...and letting go of unrealistic expectations that they will be perfect. Or at least as perfect as J.

T. may or may not be casual or become more than casual...personally, I like casual...less hassle then....relax, deep breath in and out...and maybe YOU should give him a call?

I Became Insane
With Horrible
Intervals of Sanity

E.A. Poe