Lol TC! ... I am EXACTLY where you are.... Can't get past date 3 with anyone..... yet.
Last guy got dumped (nicely) because he offered to buy me a new mobile phone on date 3... yikes!
The one before that, on date 3, offered to bring his tool box, next date, so he could fix some things around my house that needed attention.... scary!
What is it about date 3??

( 2 years ago... if bpbf had offered any of that I would have been in raptures)