HI Lilyofthevalley..
Sorry this is happening to you...
ive been thru the trauma of H having affairs... he had three different women over a three yr period ..women from his work.. ugh.. During this time he was diagnosed Bipolar II ... intitial diagnosis was Major Depression...

I understand how horrible this it to go through.. so take good care of you...

If you need some support... maybe post on the other part of the board.. more people read over here..

stay strong..

huggs
Ange

Take  what  you  need . . .  leave  the  rest .Blue_butterfly