That's good news Lynne..
I think I'm reaching that stage too. Had a dream about xbpbf this week wherein he tried to win me back. All my friends, in the dream, shouted NOOOO... and I genuinely agreed with them. I woke up feeling more ready to meet someone new.

As for T... if you know he is not 'the forever one'... shouldn't you tell him? The longer it goes on the more hurt he will be...