Thanks for the suggestions. I feel this web site is going to help me get stronger and hopefully make it through these bumps in the road. It is so nice to talk to people that actually know exactly what you are going through. I was just curious...when your DW is going through a bout of D do you become the focus of her negativity and anger? How do you handle that? I use to be able to just deal with it, but over the last several months I just feel like snapping back or just fleeing to get away. I don't know what the right thing is anymore. Also, are you or have you gone to a counselor to help you get through this DF? Any advice would be greatly appreciated.