Wow, Vin, yes I can agree particularly with the below--
"When you tell the truth expect them to react
When they tell a lie they expect you to react
When they go away they are avoiding your truths
When they close up on you they are smothering your truths
When they say they love you in a different kind of way they are rebelling against their lies by removing you from their conscious
When presented with a pile of books they cannot face the truth
When they meet the therapist they avoid the truths
When they take medication they find a whole new set of different acceptable truths
If they avoid therapy and medication they are quite happy rebelling by removing your input to take either from their conscious
When they say they ain't depressed they ain't because your truths are meaningless in the light of other truthful agendas"

Did you just describe my life or what? Looking at your writing, I can pinpoint why he exploded with a reaction each and every time--he doesn't want truth or accountability. Why? No longer my problem. Still sucks.