Vin - what if the cost of repair is more than the dishwasher is worth? Do you still pay the repairman or get a new washer? Or do you just eat out?

L - In response to your questions - I have been asking myself the same. My H is not willing to go to therapy. He does not have the problem. I understand what you mean about feeling like the conversation will be one sided and negative. I was also nervous about possibly having a therapist who would direct me one direction or the other (definitely leave or definitely stay.) Although many days I truly wish SOMEONE would just tell me what I should do...

I attended a couple of sessions about a year ago. I think I'm ready to try again. I was SO afraid of crying and I was also afraid of who I might see when leaving the building. Silly I know.

Keep us posted on how things go for you.