I agree completely Ange. Ironic thing, the hardest bits to get are the part we played and the fact that we only play a part....or maybe that's just for me. You're right about the laundry analogy too. The longer you stand there wondering whether you should be washing whites first or sorting EVERYTHING before you start, or what kind of detergent or whether extra large loads clean as well as a bunch of smaller loads, the longer it is before you see the clean, tidy, laundry room floor.