I am not sure they are capable either. My bf was also a very considerate person when I was sick or not feeling good and he was always the please and thank you guy.

When he left home in Sept. he was very emotional and apologized for putting me through this.

Once in Jan when I talked to him, he did say "I can't imagine how hard this is for you".

In April I said to him to you even care how I feel? His answer was "Is that what you think?" HEEEELLLLLLOOOOOOOO, is that what I think!!!!! (no answer to that of course)