It's funny, my DH just had a meltdown over this in the past week.

My oldest daughter was very angry with him for something he did (depression related). So she blurted out to him "You are NOT the only one suffering here"!

OMG did he react insane to that. He went into a full blown rage, ranting about how HE is the one with problems and HE is theone who has to deal with all the pressure and HE HE HE HE HE...a full 1/2 hour of screaming and spitting over how we had no reason to be affected by his problems. He was so out of control all we could do was stand there and stare at him. Then he left.

He hasn't spoken to any of us in two days. He is in pouting, misunderstood mode now.

Depression at it's finest.