Shari if we are still separated next summer or I don't see any chance of us working it out I will be done. I don't deserve to be disrespected and treated the way I have been treated since the last week of December. This has been the worst year of my life only second to 1990 when I was with my former bf and I miscarried we had been together for 3 yrs and were together for a total for 13. He was controlled by his mother and he told me he would never be able to get married until she died well today I found out she died yesterday. We haven't been together since 2002. We had broke up for a bit and then tried to work it out so I am going to send a card but not attend the funeral. It will be very small because she was NOT well liked, if there was a visitation I would go. I would feel very uncomfortable and I don't want him to feel uncomfortable but I will be sending a card this week to him. He will always have a piece of my heart.