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My husband pushed his parents away too....I never thought he would do it to me as well. I didn't know how to deal with the fact that he couldn't stand his mom anymore. Really I thought he would work through it. I thought that when we had kids he would realize how important his own mom was. But this didn't happen.
My husband believes that I put him on the bottom of "my list" and he never got any attention. Now I would rub his shoulders at night and then he would tell me that I didn't do a good enough job (this is after he would wait 20 minutes and tell me I was rubbing in the wrong spot!!!) I have been blamed for everything.
What I realize now is how unsatisfied my husband was/is inside himself and how he is not strong enough to look inside himself. He can only survive by blaming the people who love him the most. So sad.
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