there is no point trying to undo whats been said..

all you can do is work on you and behaviours/things you know dont benefit you or your marriage... work on a better way to interact...
NOW Im not saying you didnt interact in a good way... you said it...

we often wonder why we do things or say things we know tip the apple cart over..
and we do them over and over again...
theres something inside of us that think that MAYBE something will click.. and things will be fixed...
sometimes its just our habits...

Going through things like living with a DSO ... eventually teaches us to ... choose our words wisely... and to choose our battles wisely...
otherwise we spend endless amounts of time.. banging our heads against the brick walls..

take care and stay strong..

now you know better... do better..

huggs
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Take  what  you  need . . .  leave  the  rest .Blue_butterfly