One thing with me is that I never engaged in the arguements he tried to pick and that is one thing he didn't like about me because I wasn't "passionate" enough and didn't show enough emotion. The first time I did get mad and slammed the door he said it was about time I showed some f'ing emotion and he said you want to see emotion here you go.. that was the night that he punched a hole in the wall and then kicked the coffee table and everything including the lap top went flying and he left the house at 2:30 am drunk and didn't come back until 4:30 am.

That is what I got for finally expressing an arguementative tone. I hate argueing I grew up with parents who argued all the time and I didn't want a marriage like that.