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i think they reach out to others because the expectations from that person are different ..
WE KNOW them from a time, when perhaps they wernt depressed or suffering..
WE have a history with them... we have things to compare.. (and how many times do we compare and tell them about it.. ?? I know i did ! and that is something we need to stop doing )
One of the things that happened with my exbph when he cheated (and he confirmed this many times when he was more stable)
was, that he could be a different person .. more hippy... a 'cook'... (lol.. sorry that makes me laugh because i always encouraged him to cook.. but he never wanted to.. then when he left me for bimbo #1 he was asking me for MY recipes so he could impress her!! too funny) they can be different with new people..
Also .. the new feelings of love give them a RUSH.. bit like drugs .. they can come up a bit from the low of depression with that new high.
Of course everyone is different and will have different reasons for seeking out new friends.. lovers.... etc.
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