KitKat I agree that divorce is taking the easy way out, of course my BPH saying divorce is harder than putting the marriage back together. When my husband filed this summer he said even if we do get back together we have to fully divorce first and start over with a clean slate. That make no sense at all to me.

In my head and heart divorce is the easy way because you just let it go and it is like breaking up with a bf instead of trying to mend a broken marriage or relationship.