A good thing that your going to have an STD screening... self protection is a must.. when suspicious things are happening in our marriages.

I dont think divorcing someone is the chicken way out.. for whatever reasons.. depressed.. bipolar... just needing to end marriage for self preservation.. whatever the reason... each of us .. or even them... makes the decision and usually its not done lightly.. even with D people.

The D can see the sufferer making rash decisions for sure... but those decisions... as far as theyre concerned are made because they FEEL a certain way about their relationship and they need to leave..
Feelings.. emotions... all play a huge part with DSOs(as they do with any of us.. D or not ) ... and unfortunately its not up to us to say those feelings arent valid... so when someone makes a huge decision .. even when Depressed.. its their choice.. and its what they need to do whether we agree or not.

Ange

Take  what  you  need . . .  leave  the  rest .Blue_butterfly