I, in no means, meant to imply that divorce was the chicken way out.   There is NO easy way about dealing with the D monster.  I just think that divorce is more like ripping off a bandage...quick, painful, and then you move on.   Fixing the relationship is more like picking at a scab over and over again...the wound eventually heals, but it's a long painful process. 

Glad you're getting tested.  I did...not a fun process, but a good one.  Good luck

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