I wish I could be certain on what would do the kids more damage...
growing up in a household with two parents who may have no interpresonal relationship for the most part...or growing up in a split household
Me and my son are so close and seem to grow closer by the day....I am the one he calls for in the middle of the night when he wakes up and wants someone...I am the one who he chooses to lay by when going to sleep....and I am the one that may have to end this for his own long term benefit
At 2 going on 3, he may be too young to remember our relationship if we split....if I wait until he is older I fear it could give him a greater sense of abandonment because he would remember it more
thoughts?