From what I know it would most likely be shared custody....tends to be the most common trend in our state from what I understand....and assuming my wifes depression does not get worse, I would accept this...even though I would prefer to go for full custody

But as far as full custody I am hesitant for two reasons...it would get ugly...and more importantly, how would that look to our daughter...it would look like I chose to end this, and keep my son while sending her and her mother out of our home....I would be worried about how a 6/7 year old would percieve this