Hi All, I'm new to the forum, although I've been "trolling" for awhile and I thought this would be a good time to speak up.

First off, Cruz, I am truly sorry for what you are going through, I can't imagine how tough it is. But, I can tell from all the support here that you'll get whatever strength you need to survive and thrive. All my prayers and best wishes for you and your son...

RC, I'm in the same boat as you are except that our daughter is still young (4 yrs old). My wife can be simply horrid most of the time. It's like she's a completely different person from when we got married. Unfortunately, she has not been on medication since we found out we were pregnant (5 yrs ago) and I know it's going to be a fight to get her back on them. Whenever I bring up the topic she tells me she's not depressed but that she's "discovering herself". Maybe so, but she's discovering the angriest, nastiest person I've known. I'm not going to hijack this conversation because it's about supporting Cruz right now, but I just wanted to say that I understand your desire "to keep the peace" by not saying anything. I'm pretty sure I can't do that much longer.