I was able to forgive because I know he was in the D at the time, and he truely feels horrible. Plus, he is working really hard on getting himself better, and fixing our marriage. I don't think it will happen again, but you just never know...I never thought it would happen in the first place. However, D or not...if it were to happen again...automatic divorce...and he knows it. I WILL NOT GO THROUGH THAT AGAIN!!!!!!

Forgetting is different. I know I will never forget what he did and how much pain he put me through.