Jenn... IF it were me...(and I was in the position of having to be tested for STDs because of my exbph's infidelities)
I would be asking to see the results of his tests... no ifs or buts... just make sure you see them. YOU have a right to see them.. and know for sure...
YOU are doubting him and bearing all that on your own shoulders... if he gets mad.. he gets mad.. but he needs to walk his talk.. and prove to you hes all clear!

IF he wont share that info with you then he has something to hide in my opinion ...
hes blown the trust .. so he needs to get out of his comfort zone and show you that hes willing to try to rebuild what is broken.. and be upfront and honest.

just remember .. IF it looks like shite... smells like shite.. then IT IS shite!!

Stay strong
Ange

Take  what  you  need . . .  leave  the  rest .Blue_butterfly