He's so childish I can't stand it. 

Cruz..
hes not childish... hes sick...

my exbph could go from love to hate in sixty seconds when he wasnt stable..

Your DSO/BPH ... whatever he is right now... is probably doing the best that he can do .. He needs help.. he cant go THERE(to get the help he needs right now) he might need to hit rock bottom before he can actually get the proper help he needs...

I know this is frustrating for you ... but he will be feeling worse than you  thats for sure..

time out is what is needed... or things are going to end up a bigger mess than they are already!

Ange

Take  what  you  need . . .  leave  the  rest .Blue_butterfly