Oh honey, I'm not reacting at him at all. We're not even talking! And if we were, I'm always calm. I've never had an issue with that. I'm the sane one here! Just like you said, venting here. I even sent my son into the living room with him this morning to go cuddle him. I hate him, and I'm sending my so to go be loving. I hate how !#!! nice I am sometimes! And then for a second, I forgot my husband was a jerk, and almost thought he'd come in and cuddle. Because you never know when your DH will all of a sudden like you again. But then I remembered, oh wait, he's miserable, and I'm over this. And then he went and laid down in our son's bed while my son took over the living room, where he sleeps. It's just all messed up. And I'm so so so fed up. 

He also took me off of his facebook. He does that whenever his D episodes are bad. And he's always taken me back when he's calmed down. It's a total joke to me. Like he's trying to punish me or something. His mom does it to him when she's acting up too, and he hates when she does it. So I always find it humorous he does the same !#!! thing that he hates her for doing. He's way, way too much like her. And that's not a compliment!