Hi JP

In reading through your post, my opinion is to carry on. Then you have the legal backing to take sole control. What I would ask my lawyer is having that ruling, if you then delay the actual deed, will that put you in a weaker space if you really want her to stay.

My feeling from the months of reading your heartbreaking posts is that what is happening now is great, but inconsistant. And from the cheap seats I would keep remembering how she has been most of the time.
It is clear you love her a great deal and like all of us hope this is an epiphany - it may well be the beginnings of change but I think you need to follow through with love and with strength.

She may well use you follwing through to say she was only going to therapy for you and she will stop now. That will be her issue and you will be safe. I worry that in delaying 30 days, you will have bought yourself and your children a further 30 days of unsettled pain.

Hugs to you of strength.

NW