You consistently amaze me with your ability to put up with this in a reasonable and calm manner. The emotional jerking-around is such a tiring thing to me, I don't know how you manage it plus deal with kids. You're my hero. I'm absolutely rooting for you.

I don't mean to pry, and if this is too rude I apologize but may I ask why you're willing to reconcile at this point? I just ask because I'm curious as to how you maintain hope that she wouldn't backslide after therapy or drive yourself crazy looking for signals that she's backsliding. I'm not suggesting that you're wrong for being willing; it's a genuine question. How do you keep hope up?

Also, you teach me new words. Contraindicated!

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